"I have never become so comfortable in my body. I am now in nudity shoots. I now LOVE shining and showing my body as she is."

A note from Ellie Deighton

Unleashing your most authentic self on the world without a strong foundation and structure to guide the wild inferno that is your inner flame involves wrestling with your subconscious, battling your sabotage and vulnerably baring your heart. And then there is that little matter of understanding what is your higher truth and what is that sneaky voice inside that doesn’t want you to fully choose and actualise your authentic self.
Overwhelming, right? That's the reality of not being held by a solid structure or really what I should call a structure of complete and utter chaos. 
I know for me, and our current members, without the sexy structure it was so easy to fall back into bad relationships, never setting clear boundaries of what we truly wanted. Believe me, I used to rebel from what I perceived were the constrains of structure, just accepting the negative impacts because they felt comfortable whilst never fully realising the possibilities of what living the most authentic version of myself could like. Here's what I learned: rebelling didn't work.

The chaos isn't sustainable. 

Without a solid structure, we take actions that send us round and round in circles trying to figure out why the relationship with ourselves and others can be so exhausting and not working all of a sudden. If you are like most of our clients you’ve probably thought to yourself, "If this is love, why does it feel so hard?" Without a solid structure, our inner flame is powerless. When we lack true sensuality our conditioning, wounding and self-sabotage steps in with its sneaky voice (or voices, am-i-right?!) and starts giving directions...

And if you’re like most of the presence-seeking, love-ready  people we work with, you are hungry for authentic sensuality and you have started this journey because you want to love, not only others but most importantly yourself. You are not here to spend the whole time trying to convince yourself the bare minimum is alright and love can be conditional in your world. You're not here to say that it's okay your boundaries weren't respected. It's not okay. The bare minimum is not your true level of intimacy.

You can see why so many relationships fail when we are taught that conditional is normal when it comes to love. It's not. It's time to change the blueprint and be a stand for a better way.   

I mean... you have noticed that right? How many of your friends are in toxic relationships? How many times have you heard "it's not a regular thing" or "they only do it when they are drunk..."

These conditions and patterns are not okay and they come from either being afraid to be seen as your most authentic self blended with never learning how to share your authentic self with the world AND NOT HAVING THE STRUCTURES TO SUPPORT YOU!

Well to be blunt, fuck that!

You are you, you were created to be unique. To be unashamedly you. 

And yet we all live trying to be someone else, fit in or hide. 

I get it! (I did it!) We understand, it's how the world is set up for us to follow along with and so being a part of Sensual Essence is different. It has to be. The way the world is set up in regards to love isn't working. 

When you are a part of Sensual Essence you learn how to unleash those shackles, to be you, the real you that comes out to play when you think no-one is looking. To be seen as the incredibly unique individual that you are and be surrounded by a community holding you to your most authentic self. You will vulnerably share versions of yourself you didn't know existed, explore your past and find out why you act in certain ways AND you will learn to love yourself - for real this time.  

The beauty of this is that when you follow the structures and begin to share yourself authentically, you will gravitate to and surround yourself with people that love every aspect of your true self.

This is your calling. 
This is the love you are ready for. 
This is Sensual Essence, 
And it is time for a Homecoming To Love. 

You are about to Remember Your Bliss. 

If you’re like most who have read this far, you’re starting to see the possibility of connecting to your inner flame and sharing your authentic self with the world and what it will do to help you have greater relationships and a full heart… but you’re also trying to figure out how the heck you can have a homecoming to love after so many years in the unkind wilderness.

You many be thinking..

“Won't it to be too hard to unravel myself and express my true heart?”

“I need to work on myself by myself...”

"What if I trust the voice in my heart and it goes horribly wrong?"

"Who has this even worked for?" (we have plenty of success stories and happy endings for you to see)

"You can’t share your heart openly without losing something these days!"

"There is something wrong about this, it feels like cheating - It is too easy."

And let me whisper this profound piece in your ear before I drop the mic…

HEALING REQUIRES EFFORT, 

BUT IT IS MEANT  TO BE EASY

You see, the structure is sexy. It has integrity, it's predictable and it works. And we have tested it over and over so you don't have to. All you have to do is start at the beginning.

So how do you learn how to love yourself and share the authentic version of you with the world? 

There is also a specific ORDER to each of these steps. And we set you up for success by cementing your heart and who you truly are BEFORE we dive deep into the magic of sharing that with the world (even if you are already in an intimate relationship). 

And from there you move forward powerfully into the step-by-step process that has you no longer resisting pleasure, setting clear boundaries and creating a life that nourishes your Sensual Essence. 

No more overwhelm!

No more wondering if its the right move!

No more doing it alone!

No more wondering "if it really is that easy" - it is time to find out...

 And when you look around at the most authentic people you know who are fully nourished by the pleasure in their life, fully aligned with their purpose that you currently follow and look up to...

They ALL have an epic structure and support that ALLOWS their heart to flow in a way that anchors their authentic self into the world.

THE #1 MISTAKE PEOPLE ARE MAKING

When any of us aren't supported by structure we burn out and find ourselves in relationships or experiences that are anchored in our negative beliefs, We jump from bed to bed, searching for the one, we lock ourselves away to ashamed to be seen for who we are, creating a version of ourselves to please others. It is confusing, frustrating and exhausting - for everyone involved! 

Worse than this, is when we commit to relationships or anything that isn't fully our heart. It is a slow death and decaying of the pleasure spirit and spark. We are stuck living a life that isn’t a full YES or a 10/10 life. The follow-on effect of sacrificing your joy and abandoning your heart's truth is losing more inspiration and energy through putting your time towards things you don't ACTUALLY want.

You don't know, what you don't know.

 The problem isn't that you CAN'T embody your authentic self, it is that we haven't been taught HOW. In fact, we all have SOMEONE ELSES voice in our head telling us just how IMPOSSIBLE it is to love who we truly are. Or, a voice that simply says "you can't express that!", or "no-one wants to see you like this!" 

If you don't stop living and loving for other people you will NEVER know true pleasure. We make it HARD for ourselves, because we feel like we have to do it alone, and to please others. 

If you don't implement a structure that holds you in your pleasure while all of these stories and patterns surface, you will never remember your bliss. 

Anyone who is their true authentic self has powerful structures that allow them to expand into their fullness.  And I bet you look at what they have done and what they create and you wonder why YOU can’t seem to do that. And you have been hungry for something simple and powerful to direct you in the right direction. 

Which is where we come in.

When you LEARN and IMPLEMENT structures that support your authentic expression, you only need to make your decisions ONCE, and the rest of your energy is free to take your next steps, and FINALLY bring you home to love.

"I've never felt so safe and seen and trusted to be all of me."

- Lains, Australia

Opening your sensual essence...

THE ONLY SPACE THAT actively connects you to the true vision of YOUR Sensual Essence. We all know that there is something more we want to claim for ourselves and true expression; and this is where we set powerful intentions and clear resistance so you can achieve your pleasure goals.

Bringing awareness to your resistance to pleasure...
THE ONLY SKILL THAT releases you into rewriting and rewiring your pleasure story by acknowledging the pain and disconnection that has held you back for many years. We can only expand into deeper ecstatic bliss if we are prepared to look at everything that’s holding you back along with how to anchor to your heart’s true vision of the life you’d wish to create.

Igniting your pleasure body...

THE ONLY SKILL THAT activates your entire pleasure body without even touching yourself! Learn to add another dimension to your self pleasure practice by connecting to your inner flame and the intricacies of your own sex centre.

Opening your body to receive love...

THE ONLY SKILL THAT actually soothes the body and mind when connecting to your partner so you can fully receive and be present in the bedroom (and beyond!). Learn tools to feel supported to express your needs and desires, in a way that honours everyone in the space.

Embracing your pleasure treasures...

THE ONLY SKILL THAT teaches you how to connect sacredly to your sensual body with crystal tools. Learn to unlock deeper sensation and pleasure in your body without overstimulating your nervous system or genitals.

"I'm for the first time feeling SEXY in my whole life at the age of 67!"

- Cate, Australia

Reclaiming the temple of you...

THE ONLY SPACE that allows you to use all the tools on your Sensual Essence journey to reclaim your full orgasmic potential. Remember who you are and the sacredness of your being while connecting to your body in a reverent way.

Let's talk about sex magic...

THE ONLY SKILL that allows you to combine your sensual nature and inherent desires and brings them into manifestation! Learn how to use orgasm to your advantage inside and outside the bedroom.

Rituals of devotional relating...

THE ONLY SPACE that allows you to use all the tools on your Sensual Essence journey to reclaim your full orgasmic potential. Remember who you are and the sacredness of your being while connecting to your body in a reverent way.

A remembering of your bliss...

You made it...you have remembered your bliss and now we equip you with the tools to claim what you are over and create a vision for the future.

"The one thing that I really learnt to do was receive and I think it’s something that I’ve struggled with for my entire life."

- Emily, Australia